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How I became Domme Jaguar 

 

I started to actually play Fetish & BDSM after having studied Sexology, Art and Dance. After having a number of very good male and female lovers, and after having searched from Mind-Body paths such as Bioenergetics or the spiritual, trascendental sex of Taoism.

At the begining, there was just a brief, but intense, couple of months online, under the nickname of “Nenita Maldosilla”, into things like figging, labels, protocol and a lot of research.

I spent about a year practicing the swing of different instruments during any free time, day or night, and I started having fun punishing every person who asked me to do so at any party held in Mexico City.

Those were the days when the local BDSM community was forming and I started to be known as “Lady G”, as some of my closest friends still refer to Me.

I got a good reaction from everybody, not( only) because of my good looks but because of my “danced” flogging and of that combination of rudeness, affection and elegance I had started to develop as My Own Style.

Then, I rented my first studio and got another name for those foreigners visiting my country, who were delighted at My Biting and My Trampling. I named myself “Lady Onca” after the scientific name of the Big American Cat.

And at some point I looked back and fully realized that all my life I have had a great time each time when I was On Top; that I definitely had a drive for Power, Control and Lead; and that, as I’d rather get very physical instead of mental, I was amazed by the Alchemy of this path, and the fact  that I was finding this not precisely “dark”, but rather enlightening.

I had learned and practised a wide range of disciplines, and have had  interesting, challenging and loving people under My Feet. I had good Dom and sub friends in some countries I’ve visited, and I decided to take a higher step: I called My Totem Animal, the Black Jaguar, to make me His. And asked Hir to(iluminar) My Journey with Hir Power, Hir Beauty, Hir Compassio and Hir Wisdom.

So Domme Jaguar was born.


 

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